By: Adele Ryan McDowell

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Thursday, January 31, 2008 at 12:12am

Pop goes your attention

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In my gym, there are promo pieces that are played over the loudspeaker. One such tagline is, "What gets measured gets improved." The message is designed to encourage the clientele to get body fat levels measured and, ultimately, be inspired - or, more likely, shocked - and, as a result, hire a personal trainer.

Actually, I like that tag ine, but not for the reason intended. I think where we place our attention is a matter of serious consideration. Attention can be positive or negative. Like the old saying about children, any attention is better than no attention.

I think the same holds true for advertising. We remember the really awful, annoying or squirmy commercials as well as the funny, heartwarming and savvy ones. Just watch the conversations around the forthcoming Super Bowl commercials. Those gilt-edged seconds are considered primo. There is a massive audience watching the game, and history has dictated those intervening minutes are filled with super-special commercials that rival the game for our attention.

Our modern life can feel like we are careening through space at breakneck speed. We are trying to hold on, reach our assorted destinations and avoid crashing into the asteroids, meteorites and space junk thrown at our personal planetary system. It's quite the ride, and there are many grabby hands trying to get our attention, our energy, our time and our dollars.

Years ago, I worked in a small company where the president had little patience. He was known to personally pound on the door of the ladies room to get to you faster. His assistants would leave messages on desk chairs that read, "Urgent, urgent, urgent." No top of the desk would suffice; no single "urgent" would do. He wanted our full attention immediately, if not sooner.

It's not easy being a free-floating entity in a jam-packed cosmos that competes for one of your most precious resources, your attention. Are you in overload? Deficit? Or overwhelm? Do you find yourself scattered, paralyzed or laser-focused?

What might be some Rules of the Road for understanding and fine-tuning your attention?

1) Attention is a matter of personal choice.

I know that sounds like my flair for the obvious. It is, and it is also a matter worth underscoring.

We often forget that we have choice, and choice is the ultimate in personal power. Every day, on a regular basis, we get to choose where we will invest our energy and time and how we will fill our senses.

Clearly, the world is chock-a-block with stimulus overload, but, unless you are incarcerated, for the most part you get to choose. Choose what art, movies, vistas that you will take in. You go to the market, and choose your basic food groups; you pick up a newspaper or log onto a computer and, once again, you choose where to direct your attention. You choose how to spend your time and where to spend your money.

There is power in what you choose; there is power in where you place your attention. This applies to our internal worlds as well as our external worlds.

This makes me think of Victor Frankl, a German physician who survived four different concentration camps during World War II. Frankl reasoned that no one could take away his essence, destroy his inner world or how he chose to consider and attend to his experiences. Frankl survived his experiences intact and later developed the psychological system of logotherapy. Frankl reminds me of some wise person's saying, "A brave mind is always impregnable."

And psychologist and author James Hillman wrote, "Attention is the cardinal psychological virtue. On it depends perhaps the other cardinal virtues, for there can hardly be faith nor hope nor love nor anything unless it first receives attention."

Attention is a choice, and it is our first choice.

2) Attention can be a form of readiness; attention can be form of procrastination.

This assertion dovetails on the fact that attention is a choice. We can choose to be ready to address something, such as our lack of physical fitness, by taking a walk. We can also choose to watch "Law and Order" television reruns instead of completing our schoolwork. Either way, we have made a choice on how to expend our energy.

3) Attention can be surprising.

Psychologist Carl G. Jung told us that whatever has remained unconscious comes to us as fate. In other words, those soul parts of us that have been ignored because we have been preoccupied, too busy or too fearful to listen to our quiet voice or pay attention to the niggling itch of the body may make a startling appearance. It is somewhat like a jack-in-the-box of the psyche. Pop goes the attention.

There can be pain or fear of every variety, be it physical, emotional, mental or spiritual; there can be the urgency of basic survival needs such as a safe shelter, food, shoes and coat.

Surprises, happily, are not all bad. They can be fun, outrageous and unexpected gifts from the gods. There can be love and joy; abundance and pleasure. There can be moments of awe, such as witnessing a birth, taking in the majesty of the Grand Canyon or manifestations of willpower and drive.

The surprise factor is like a huge, red flag waving in the breeze; it says, "Notice me, notice me now." What grabs our attention can be all manner of wonderful and consternating.

4) Attention requires consciousness.

That sentence seems reductive and more of that flair for the obvious, but here is what I mean:

If you are scattered, overwhelmed and without personal direction, I suggest there are a few things happening at once.

First, you are being reactive to your environment. This is not said as judgment, but as a statement of fact. There are so many events and happenings and fires to put out that it appears that your only choice is to react and make things better. Create some peace and stability; stop the blood flow. Your attention is externally driven by circumstance. This happens, life does life.

Then, this outer-directed way of being becomes a habit pattern. You are accustomed to doing for others; they have grown to expect your capable hands and competent ways. However, in the process of aiding and abetting the processes of others, you have forgotten you. You have neglected to think about what it is that you need, desire, dream about or aspire to.

Your attention requires course correction; back to home, back to you. Your attention requires conscious thought and conscious choice on your part.

5) Attention is a form of power.

Shamans have been teaching the concept of attention as power for centuries. Whether you call it chi, qi or prana), energy is our life force. And attention is how we choose to direct that energy.

I like the research Herbert Benson from Harvard University did. He and his team studied Tibetan monks who can maintain their body temperature while shrouded in cold, wet sheets in freezing weather. In fact, the monks' body heat warmed and eventually dried the sheets. Talk about attention.

We all have this resource; we all have this inherent power to direct our lives. Maybe you want to take a little time to evaluate how you utilize your attention? More than likely, you have the potential to be more of a powerhouse than you ever imagined.

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Dr. Adele Ryan McDowell, Ph.D., is a psychologist, empath and shaman who likes looking at life with the big viewfinder. Her email address is {email ARMCDOWELL@aol.com}ARMCDOWELL@aol.com{/email}. © Copyright 2008 by Adele Ryan McDowell.